In the grand scheme of things, 40-something isn’t considered old. But
anything beyond 20-something is often considered old in that stereotypical
bastion of fresh-out-of-school youth - the startup. Joining a startup can give
seasoned programmers a new jolt of energy and excitement, but can also cause
them concern over trying to bridge the generation gap with their new, younger
colleagues. A number of programmers, of all ages, recently shared advice on
Slashdot for older developers considering joining startups. Here are 7 tips they
gave for you more seasoned developers to keep in mind when joining a startup.
Act your age
Just because you’re joining a company full of 20 year-old developers with no family obligations who like to socialize a lot, doesn’t mean you have to try to match their partying ways. Act your age and let your work speak for itself.
“You're there to do a job, not be a frat buddy.” minkie
“... you will be respected for your technical expertise and not for any foolish attempt to ‘fit in’ bar hopping with super-annuated adolescent co-workers.” pigiron
“If the company succeeds, those events will go away, and you'll fit in; if they don't go away, the company will fail, and you won't need to worry about that problem anymore.”
Don’t isolate yourself
While you shouldn’t try too hard to fit in socially with your younger colleagues, you also shouldn’t isolate yourself. Taking part in the occasional group activity can help you make you feel part of the team.
“I definitely don't participate in all the extracurricular activities, but I do join in enough to stay part of the scene. “ dhaines
“Cultural activities can be had that don't have to interfere with your WLB (work-life balance).” Anonymous
“Make time to show up for a few of the more innocuous extracurriculars even though you have a family. You don't have to go to the strip club, but a couple of drinks and a round of pool won't kill you.” Anonymous
Work smarter, not harder
Don’t fall into the stereotypical startup trap of regularly working crazy hours. Use your experience to do your work in a reasonable amount of time so you can still have a life with your family. You’ll be happier and the youngsters just may learn a thing from you about working efficiently and having a life away from work.
“... being more experienced, professional and efficient makes up for long hours.” Anonymous
“Use your maturity to avoid being the 16 hour per day programmer.” Anonymous
“I would rather have a guy who is excited, happy and engaged, outdoing the younger kids and showing how it gets done, all while having that WLB (work-life balance).” Anonymous
Be upfront about your needs
Before even joining a startup, try to get a sense for the company culture and whether it would be a good fit for you. Be upfront about your family commitments and make sure that the company will be accepting and supportive of your needs.
“Setting office hours clearly helps. IE, I will always be there by nine, and I won't take meetings after 4pm (my personal plan).” Anonymous
“You don't want to be the bottle-neck on a critical release cycle because of family commitments, so sharing your schedule and setting fair expectations on when you can work is important.”
Wrexs0ul
“If you feel that the company's culture won't be accepting of your needs, run away.” Sheepless
Share your wisdom
Don’t be afraid to share the wisdom you’ve gained through your years of experience. Use it to provide guidance and to mentor younger developers who will, most likely, appreciate it.
“You will have insight into problems that the 20 somethings will never have. That is nothing to be shy or ashamed of.” crispytwo
“Come in as the voice of wisdom and experience. It's useful!” Lally Singh
“... I took the opportunity to become a mentor for the young guys. It's worked very well.” Anonymous
“They will appreciate the times when someone comes up with a bad idea that looks good, but you can say ‘I've seen this before, here's what happened...’” Strudelkugel
Respect your younger coworkers
Don’t shy away from being the voice of experience with younger coworkers, but make sure you do so in a way that won’t alienate them. Remember what it was like when you were their age and how you would have like to been treated.
“Remember that they're young, not stupid (at least most of them)- show them why they're wrong politely and show them why your way is better respectfully.” AuMatar
“Make use of teachable moments while not talking down to them.” Anonymous
“Respect them (the younger employees). Nobody wants to be made to feel stupid. Do not look down your nose at them.” Anonymous
Focus on the work
In the end, just remember that you were hired to do a job. Focus on doing that to the best of your abilities and odds are that all will be well.
“... I think as long as you do your job right with the right attitude, you're doing your job and that's what matters most.” Anonymous
“Be excellent. That's why they're going to hire you.” larwe
“... focus on the work, be engaged and open-minded, and you'll be fine.” cbybear
“Be yourself, kick butt, take names.” samantha
Act your age
Just because you’re joining a company full of 20 year-old developers with no family obligations who like to socialize a lot, doesn’t mean you have to try to match their partying ways. Act your age and let your work speak for itself.
“You're there to do a job, not be a frat buddy.” minkie
“... you will be respected for your technical expertise and not for any foolish attempt to ‘fit in’ bar hopping with super-annuated adolescent co-workers.” pigiron
“If the company succeeds, those events will go away, and you'll fit in; if they don't go away, the company will fail, and you won't need to worry about that problem anymore.”
Don’t isolate yourself
While you shouldn’t try too hard to fit in socially with your younger colleagues, you also shouldn’t isolate yourself. Taking part in the occasional group activity can help you make you feel part of the team.
“I definitely don't participate in all the extracurricular activities, but I do join in enough to stay part of the scene. “ dhaines
“Cultural activities can be had that don't have to interfere with your WLB (work-life balance).” Anonymous
“Make time to show up for a few of the more innocuous extracurriculars even though you have a family. You don't have to go to the strip club, but a couple of drinks and a round of pool won't kill you.” Anonymous
Work smarter, not harder
Don’t fall into the stereotypical startup trap of regularly working crazy hours. Use your experience to do your work in a reasonable amount of time so you can still have a life with your family. You’ll be happier and the youngsters just may learn a thing from you about working efficiently and having a life away from work.
“... being more experienced, professional and efficient makes up for long hours.” Anonymous
“Use your maturity to avoid being the 16 hour per day programmer.” Anonymous
“I would rather have a guy who is excited, happy and engaged, outdoing the younger kids and showing how it gets done, all while having that WLB (work-life balance).” Anonymous
Be upfront about your needs
Before even joining a startup, try to get a sense for the company culture and whether it would be a good fit for you. Be upfront about your family commitments and make sure that the company will be accepting and supportive of your needs.
“Setting office hours clearly helps. IE, I will always be there by nine, and I won't take meetings after 4pm (my personal plan).” Anonymous
“You don't want to be the bottle-neck on a critical release cycle because of family commitments, so sharing your schedule and setting fair expectations on when you can work is important.”
Wrexs0ul
“If you feel that the company's culture won't be accepting of your needs, run away.” Sheepless
Share your wisdom
Don’t be afraid to share the wisdom you’ve gained through your years of experience. Use it to provide guidance and to mentor younger developers who will, most likely, appreciate it.
“You will have insight into problems that the 20 somethings will never have. That is nothing to be shy or ashamed of.” crispytwo
“Come in as the voice of wisdom and experience. It's useful!” Lally Singh
“... I took the opportunity to become a mentor for the young guys. It's worked very well.” Anonymous
“They will appreciate the times when someone comes up with a bad idea that looks good, but you can say ‘I've seen this before, here's what happened...’” Strudelkugel
Respect your younger coworkers
Don’t shy away from being the voice of experience with younger coworkers, but make sure you do so in a way that won’t alienate them. Remember what it was like when you were their age and how you would have like to been treated.
“Remember that they're young, not stupid (at least most of them)- show them why they're wrong politely and show them why your way is better respectfully.” AuMatar
“Make use of teachable moments while not talking down to them.” Anonymous
“Respect them (the younger employees). Nobody wants to be made to feel stupid. Do not look down your nose at them.” Anonymous
Focus on the work
In the end, just remember that you were hired to do a job. Focus on doing that to the best of your abilities and odds are that all will be well.
“... I think as long as you do your job right with the right attitude, you're doing your job and that's what matters most.” Anonymous
“Be excellent. That's why they're going to hire you.” larwe
“... focus on the work, be engaged and open-minded, and you'll be fine.” cbybear
“Be yourself, kick butt, take names.” samantha
